Saturday, March 7, 2009

I give up

My last post was about a date I had and how much fun I had. I'm sorry to say that this one is not going to be so cheerful and will more than likely be a lot of ranting and raving... maybe.

Anyways, I thought my last date was a great success. We talked a lot. We shared some good stories. I had fun. The next day was not so much fun. I tried to talk to her 3 times the next day. All 3 times, it seemed to me that she was trying to ignore me with only one attempt where I actually got a few words out of her. I kept thinking to myself, "She's not ignoring me. She's just busy and has a lot on her mind." I called her 2 days later just to see how she was doing. She didn't answer and after leaving a message, I didn't get a return call. I called her again another day to try and set up another date. Still no answer. Finally, the 3rd day I called her she answers her phone. We talk a little bit and it turns out she has been sick. I asked if she had any plans for the weekend and she said she was going to a wedding and then home for spring break. Then came the big questions. I asked if she had had fun on our dates. She said yes. I asked if she would like to go on more. Her answer... maybe.

MAYBE!!! What kind of answer is that? At first I was thinking maybe she isn't sure about me. I mean, I am 7 1/2 years older than her. At first I wasn't even sure about that. But in the end, I see that she is too nice to tell me no. She doesn't answer her phone. She doesn't return my calls, which by the way is the rudest thing a person can do. I would rather have her call me back and just plain tell me she is not interested rather than have no call at all and wonder what she is thinking or if I should keep pursuing. I'm nearly 29 years old. I've been on A LOT of dates so it's not like I can't take the rejection. Just stop the stupid guessing games and stop wasting my time. I'm not in a huge rush to get married or anything, but don't be stupid and make me waste my time on you by guessing if you are interested or not when I could be moving on to someone else who will eventually be the one I marry.

So on that note, anybody know any good, single, LDS girls who are between 23 and 28 years old and who are around the Logan area?

2 comments:

The Hills said...

Sorry, unless you are looking for someone older and on the Oregon coast. I found someone perfect for you...she's a choir teacher and very sweet and pretty.

Darcy said...

Oh my goodness! I wish I knew someone for you. I would set you up in a second! I will keep thinking!